The Rolling Stones: Memory Motel by Dr. Dale Williams Barrigar

“I hit the bottle, I hit the sack and cried.”

The Stones’ song, “Memory Motel,” from their 1976 album, “Black and Blue,” is an overlooked and underappreciated masterpiece. This story-song is well worth looking at and listening to again. And again and again. One of their very best works, it’s a shining, enduring example of the Anglo/English ballad tradition which was incorporated into the black American blues idiom and then re-worked again by white singers and groups like Elvis and Jerry Lee Lewis, and later on to the Stones, Led Zeppelin, Janis Joplin, Van Morrison, and Eric Clapton, leading to crucially important artists of today like Nick Cave; Lana Del Rey; Taylor Swift (“All Too Well (Sad Girl Autumn Version)”); Snoop Dog; Eminem; Bonnie “Prince” Billy; Conor Oberst (of Nebraska); and Wilco.

These cross-cultural exchanges, sometimes violently resisted by mainstream society, were moral acts which led to more than just rock and roll, bending the arc of the human universe toward greater justice by vastly increasing integration and racial equity throughout the world. Real music isn’t just music, from Bach, Beethoven and Mozart to now.

“Memory Motel” is a song which connects everyone by exploring the gnawing ache in the bones of lost love and the passing of time which all humans experience, no matter their race, creed, income levels or gender. In seven minutes and seven seconds, in a song recorded in Germany, the Stones tell the tale of a heartbreaking, breathtaking love affair starring a beautiful, hazel-eyed, long-haired, wild-haired woman who grabs the guitar from the hands of her man; drives a green and blue, broken-down pick-up truck; and sings genius songs in a bar in Boston. The narrator is an equally brilliant rock singer on the road. The setting a haunted motel on a remote seashore.

Shakespeare’s Juliet, Robert Burns’ Highland Mary, William Wordsworth’s Lucy, Keats’ Fanny Brawne, Mary Shelley, and Byron’s half-sister Augusta Leigh are all somehow drawn together in this intense mini-drama told in the idiom of the English blues.

Long-haired, unshaven, shirtless, piratical Richards, holding a Jack Daniel’s bottle and a cigarette, absconds on the guitar and only sings for most of this piece, which means he’s bringing everything he can to his vocals; while long-haired, unshaven, checkered sport coat-wearing, show-biz Jagger pounds the piano keys as if they were a typewriter and he were trying to write an entire Emily Bronte romance novel within one song (bottle of Jack Daniel’s next to his ankle and his red socks on).

Richards enters the song half way through as a third character in a shadowy performance worthy of Christopher Marlowe, Shakespeare’s rival, establishing an emotional threesome in the song’s situational dynamics that lends a profound layer to this public closet drama. His voice continually praises the intellectual and emotional uniqueness of this special woman, never expressing jealousy or anger, but sometimes grief at her loss. The mainstream cliches about Keith are completely undercut by his progressive feminist perspective and his depth of emotional expression in this autobiographical story performance, which is heart-breaking, realistic and long-enduring in human terms.

(Keith only sings co- or lead vocals on a double handful of Stones tunes. Almost every one of them is one of their best works.)

Richards co-wrote a fascinating, Hemingwayesque autobiography called “Life.” He was an obsessive reader of Byron at one point. The Byron who went around the higher levels of English society with gigantic dogs, a laudanum bottle, and sometimes a monkey (or a trained bear at college). Byron’s girlfriends and friends were collaborators, competitors, and rivals. One of his beautiful, regal, and intellectually intimidating ladies labeled him, the great lord, “mad, bad, and dangerous to know.”

“Memory Motel” implies this kind of tragic history, as surely as Mick Jagger read aloud portions of Shelley’s elegy for Keats, “Adonais,” in honor of Brian Jones. (Jones is a member of the eternal 27 Club. Keats was 25 upon dying. Percy Shelley was 29. Wordsworth was 80. At this writing, Jagger and Richards are 81 and 80, recently on tour here in Chicago, home of Buddy Guy, Muddy Waters and Howlin’ Wolf, and where the Stones recorded their second album sixty years ago in 1964.)

“I hit the bottle, I hit the sack and cried.”

As I grow older, every time I go back to my own Memory Motel, I hear more.

I had become a failed literature professor at the age of 52, because they took my job away. Also, another relationship had ended. I couldn’t bear to keep the photos of her and us, nor place them in the dumpster either. So I took one of the small, black-and-white, photo-booth photos of beautiful, genius, red-haired her from when we were on our trip to Nashville seeing a retrospective of Bob Dylan and Johnny Cash at the Country Music Hall of Fame. And I placed the photo deep in the middle of a library book which I put in the middle of a bunch of other library books I returned.

A librarian named Veronica called the next day and returned the photo to me.

9 thoughts on “The Rolling Stones: Memory Motel by Dr. Dale Williams Barrigar

  1. Dale

    I just listened to the song (as I did when I read it before) and it amazes me how well you have described it and expanded on it.

    I believe the boys would be happy to know that it reached you. Songs have that rare power of connecting people with times and memories. I think that is because of brevity. This is a long song but still only seven minutes.

    Great stuff once again!

    Leila

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    • Thank you, Leila!

      The Stones are one of the most literary bands out there, and they deserve enormous credit for it. Mick and Keith are both huge readers: and always have been.

      And as writers, Keith and Mick are definitely in the same ballpark with Paul and John and Bob, and Jim Morrison; but for some reason, they don’t seem to get as much credit for this as the other four, except in a small minority of their fans.

      In Chicago and environs, however, they are almost universally admired in an all-around way, because of their connections with the city. I saw them live around 2000 in Chicago, and I was in the second row. It blew me away and will never be forgotten! Almost as cool as the time you saw Muddy Waters!

      I also want to mention Dorothy Parker’s short story “A Telephone Call” in the context of “Memory Motel.”

      I reread this story the other day. What a masterpiece! It fits the definition of a piece that was written a hundred years ago and sounds like it was written yesterday or tomorrow. She diagnosed borderline splitting and dramatized lost-love desperation via a Robert Browning-style interior monologue that is classic and well-known, but nowhere near as well-known as it should be given its quality. And that is true of Ms. Dorothy overall as a writer. BIG TIME.

      Dale

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      • Hi again Dale

        Yes, Dorothy will be 132 on Friday. So amazing how short our lives are, but we can keep going in a real way as long as we do well in our limited amount of time.

        Mick and Keith will be around for centuries!

        Leila

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  2. Dale –

    I’m a few months older than Keith and Mick and identify with them despite being a small time mathematician and story writer. Read Keith’s bio, read about the rest of the Stones mostly Mick. 1965 graduating from Portland State “Satisfaction” was everywhere.

    “Memory Motel” good. The lesser known Stone song songs that I like a lot “Last Time”, “Hand Of Fate”, and the amusing “Live With Me” (the French maid is a whore).

    Keep on rocking, ‘riting and reading.

    Mr. Mirthless

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    • Mr. Mirthless

      That’s cool that you identify with them. They are great characters, great personalities, great free individuals who’ve always done things their own way and no one else’s ways, great trailblazers, not just musicians – but great musicians first and most of all.

      I’m not familiar with those songs you mentioned! I’ll check them out!

      Thanks for everything and may you become mirthful again soon!

      Dale

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  3. mickbloor3's avatar mickbloor3 says:

    Thanks, Dale. You’re on the money about Keith. His rare vocal tracks are generally the best on the albums, just as it is his opening riff on Satisfaction that makes you sit up and smell the coffee. And ‘Life’ is a good read. May he continue to be indestructible. bw mick

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  4. mickbloor3's avatar mickbloor3 says:

    ps. I envy you your concert experience. Shamefully, my only experience of them was on their first UK tour in October 1963 at the Gaumont cinema in Derby when they were the warm-up band for Bo Diddley. I’ve clear memories of Bo Diddley (with Jerome and The Duchess), but can remember nothing of the Stones performance at all (sigh).

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    • Mick

      That is a wild Stones story, being there and knowing you were but not remembering them. Life’s eternal ironies never cease to fascinate. Remembering Bo Diddley is a pretty good consolation prize, however.

      Congrats again on a great, great piece on Literally today!

      That story is truly excellent in many ways.

      It brings Bellow and his best book alive again.

      It’s a relatable (fictionalized) “self portrait” of the artist (the writer) as an older man.

      And it takes a successful jab at the corporate overlords who totally deserve it, too!

      Dale

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      • mickbloor3's avatar mickbloor3 says:

        Ha! just checked what Keith wrote in ‘Life’ about that first tour. He said they learned a great deal from Bo Diddley and Little Richard about stagecraft: by the end of the tour, they were the finished article. Maybe I caught em before they made the transition? Also, apparently, they were just playing Chuck Berry covers. ‘Tell me’ (Doug Hawley’s favourite) came a little later. bw mick

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